How to do the first kiss=)

Girls

1. 1
   Have a mint. Make sure you are kissably fresh. Bad breath is a definite turn off.

   
   

   
   
2. 2
   Lean in and make eye contact. Lean your head on your guy's shoulder as if you are about to fall asleep. Look up at him - if his arm goes around to let you in, go for the kiss. If not, or if he doesn't seem to be taking things the same way you are, he might not be ready yet. Just relax for now.
   
   

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3. 3
   Look at his lips. Drop your gaze and your eyelids to half mast, then slowly, look back up at him and give him a little welcoming smile.
4. 4
   Relax and be at ease about it. If he doesn't go for the kiss, accept it and don't push. Wait for another moment, either later in the date, or another time.
5. 5
   Let him know you want to kiss. Reaching up to twine your arms around his neck, or lightly play with the hair at his neckline will let him know you are ready to get up close and personal.
6. 6
   Take the lead. Some guys are very shy. Even those who aren't have been drilled over and over about unwelcome touching. Consider lightly kissing him on the cheek to show him that you're okay with touch. Guys have a reputation as being pervs, but a lot of boys worry about going too far.
7. 7
   Invite him to kiss you. Yep, some boys really do need an engraved invitation. Let's say you've tried to show him you're ready, and he looks interested, but you just can't get him to (A) let you kiss him, or (B) kiss you, then just ask him, "Couldn't we just be kissing right now?" If he doesn't kiss you then, he isn't going to.

Guys

1. 1
   Don't Be Too Shy - Girls do want to be kissed. If you like a girl, DON'T tell her you loveher just to get a kiss, but girls do like being flattered by a guy sharing his feelings for her.
2. 2
   Have a mint. Make sure you are kissably fresh.
3. 3
   Shave. Or don't. Most girls prefer a guy with a smooth face, but some like their guy's face rough. Get to know what your girl likes.
4. 4
   Respect her privacy. Most girls will not want to make out in front of others, especially if this is her first kiss. Find the right time when you can be alone. Privacy is key.
5. 5
   Watch for signals. Watch carefully, because sometimes the signals can be confusing - she may flirt with you, then smack you on the head. These may just be coy games, or she may really be conflicted. Ask yourself these questions: Did you and your date seem to have a cozy, warm, close time together? Has she been flirting with you through body language? Has she licked her lips, or bit her lower lip while looking at you? Has she found excuses to touch you often? If you feel confident of these things, prepare to kiss!
6. 6
   Make eye contact. If she is comfortable and doesn't look away then she is ready.
7. 7
   Lean in slowly. Don't swoop in like a condor! Make it slow, nice, easy, romantic.
8. 8
   Hold her. Do not use a first kiss as your personal excuse to grope, grab, or get too familiar. Be a gentleman, for heaven's sake. Reach around her waist, gently draw her toward you (again, gentlemen, do not squish her up against you and then grind your pelvis against her).
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   Look into her eyes. Notice how we mention eye contact twice? Very important. Let her know that you are really seeing her.
10. 10
    Look at her lips. Aim, dude. Make sure you know where you're going. Lean in, and go in for the kiss - don't miss her lips.
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    Walk that fine line and make it a really excellent kiss. You don't want to give her a chaste little peck. You also don't want to (well, you may want to, but don't!) shove your tongue down her throat. An excellent first kiss is one that is romantic, tender and memorable. Your mouth should not be overly opened or closed, and it shouldn't be mushy or too tight (relax). Don't let it go too long (more than, say, 20 seconds) or let it be too short (3 seconds is not enough) - think around 10 seconds or so. A tiny hint of tongue is nice if she seems willing, but make it flirtatious and not insistent.
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    Wait for her response. Just remain silent and smile, better yet hug her, ending the first kiss in a lovely, intimate moment.
13. XoXo your Anastasy=)