вторник, 20 декабря 2011 г.

How to find a best friend By eku


Best friend is the person that always can understand you and always can help you when you have problems, teenagers have many problems and when they have them they need best friend very much. Having a best friend is a very important thing and if you don't have best friend then here are some advices how to get a best friend. Good Luck=)) Your Eku

1. Consider your current friends. Think about which of them is the most trustworthy. If you don't have any friends, then try to make some! Always look approachable, outgoing and not shy. Be a good listener. Don't act stuck-up. Be friendly and say 'hi' to absolutely everybody. Think about others first and help them.

2. Begin talking to that person more often, but don't over-do it. For instance, sit down with them at lunch and in classes that you have together, and say "hi" in the hallway.

3. Get their phone number and call them once in a while, maybe once or twice a week. Don't call on the same day every week; try to pick a random day or keep it unpredictable.

4. Ask if one day they can come over to your house, or do something fun together. Make sure you've known this person for a while first, though. If you know someone for a day or two, then ask them to come to your house, they may find this a bit strange.

5.Ask them about their hobbies to see if you can do something together within each other's shared interests. Get to really know this person. Find their likes and dislikes, favorite activities, their favorite colors, etc. There is so much you can find out!

6. Get to know their friends. If it doesn't work out with your original friend, you will still be better off than before; with even more friends to try with.

7. Tell them that they are a great friend once you've really gotten to know them. This will show that person that you think they are cool, and they will more than likely accept it.

8. Tell the person a secret that you wouldn't mind too much if they revealed, since sharing secrets builds trust. If the person tells the secret, you will not have lost much (because you did not mind this secret getting out), but you will have learned that they cannot be trusted as your best friend. If the person keeps the secret, you can tell another slightly larger secret. Soon, your friend may build a track record of trust by keeping all of your secrets, and you will know that this is a person you can share your deepest thoughts with.

9. Do not go for the "popular girl" in the class/school. This is a given, and looks like you're trying something. Instead, hang out with a new girl or someone you've seen around, but don't know yet. Try a shy person holding back - they may appreciate someone else making the effort for a change!

10. When your friend is telling someone else a secret, don't just barge in and listen to it. They will find you as an annoying person and will begin to hate you!

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