How to Fix Friendship Problems That Involved Guys =)

Instructions

1. • 1

     Contact your friend and let her know you want to talk. Schedule a time to get together, preferably in a neutral place, where you two will be uninterrupted and have time to really dish. Part of fixing the problem is someone reaching out to the other.

   • 2

     Give her something fun as a peace offering. Make it something you know she'll like, such as a cupcake or her favorite magazine.

   • 3

     Jump right in and address the issues. Be sure not to interrupt each other while speaking so everything is heard. Bring up the original problem from the very beginning, detailing how you two got to the point where you are now. Allow her to do the same thing before moving forward so you both are on the same page.

   • 4

     Describe whatever occurred that soured your relations. See what her take is on what happened. Make sure you understand each other's concerns. If there is continuing conflict over what took place, try to work it out.

   • 5

     Talk about what your friendship has meant to each of you, and point out that the breakup has caused you pain, anger and sadness. See if she feels the same way about the breakup. Question together if all of the drama was worth losing your friendship.

   • 6

     Offer any suggestions for reconciliation. If your friendship is salvageable, now's the time to chat about what it would take to get back to a solid friendship. Establish rules for a rekindled friendship, and agree that you'll never again be torn apart by anything having to do with a guy.

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